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Thursday, April 22, 2021

The Rorschach Test

A reader relates a time that he failed it. If you refuse to allow people to be held accountable to their own decisions and actions, they are never going to learn from their mistakes or change their behavior:

When I was in grad school, there was a female grad student who gave a presentation on “toxic, white masculinity” in the library. Well, it was extremely late at night, and I was leaving the library, when I saw her. This was in one of America’s most dangerous cities. It’s normal for us to walk female students and professors to their cars at this university. Especially for me, being 6’10”. Well, her car was a good bit away, and to get there, she would have had to cross two different groups of negroes, in darkness, aside from two, weak streetlights. She asked me to walk her to her car. I said, “you don’t need me too. I’m not seeing any toxic white males over there.” She looked confused, then shocked, then upset, because there were no other people nearby, and she knew instantly that I was angry at her treason. She would have to walk to her car alone, unless she was willing to wait an hour for the campus police to finish up arresting criminal negroes elsewhere. She asked “please,” a couple of times, and I agreed to walk her to her car, if she would listen to what I had to say, and I gave her an earful about how rotten and treasonous she was being, and how the real world is out there, waiting to chew us up. That she needed to bring white children into the world. I hope it had an impact. I doubt it. Not as much of one as letting her get assaulted and robbed would have had, but I lacked the strength and resolve to let that happen. I didn’t have the heart to standby while she got clocked and had her laptop stolen.

If you don't have the heart to permit people to experience the inevitable consequences of their choices, you are an enabler. You are, quite literally, part of the problem. You are helping destroy civilization.

Hence the importance of the Rorschach Test and accepting the teachable moment.

This city's afraid of me. I've seen its true face. The streets are extended gutters and the gutters are full of blood. When the drains finally scab over, all the vermin will drown. The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up around their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout: 'save us.'

And I'll whisper, no.

There is a place for mercy and forgiveness, but only in response to genuine repentance, not momentary uncertainty and fear. In the absence of repentance, never stand between Justice and her lawful prey.

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Blogger Richard Holmes April 22, 2021 9:45 AM  

I know what you're saying. But damn... I don't know if I have that coldness in my heart. Would you? Would you knowingly let a young lady walk into certain physical harm or even death to let a naïve young lady learn her lesson?

I just don't think I do. Perhaps I am the problem.

Blogger Daniele Grech Pereira April 22, 2021 9:49 AM  

@1
Yes.

Blogger VD April 22, 2021 9:50 AM  

First, how do you know that she faces "certain physical harm" simply because there happen to be a few individuals of color about?

Second, absolutely.

Anyone who hides from others that they are on the road to Hell is part of the problem.

Blogger Unknown April 22, 2021 9:50 AM  

This is a young woman though , one should know better than to assign them the kind of agency needed to suffer consequences for dumb but socially proven ideas.

Blogger GeronL April 22, 2021 9:51 AM  

We now have the left/BLM not wanting cops to interfere with murder-in-progress. Maybe we should let them depopulate the ghetto?

Blogger MichaelJMaier April 22, 2021 9:58 AM  

I don't think I would have walked her after that.

Her hearing "No. You're a traitor and you're not worth risking my life" might have been an actual wake-up call for her.

Doubtful.

Blogger Meanoldbasterd April 22, 2021 10:00 AM  

Amen

Blogger Pilgrims Pride April 22, 2021 10:04 AM  

Many years ago I worked as a salesman. One of the best training courses on the subject made it perfectly clear: people are not motivated to obtain pleasure. People are motivated to avoid pain.

Western society has done everything in its power to avoid pain. We numb or minds with intoxicants or SSRIs or sex; we warehouse the old and dying so we don't see their expirations; we (really Boomers!) worship "health" and do and pay anything to avoid the pain of aging and reverse the consequences of a life of sex, drugs, and rock-n-roll.

We even let savages burn down our cities and imprison our own kind to avoid the pain of telling alien peoples to fuck off or die.

I wonder, how will this all compare to the pain of civil war or the gulag?

Blogger Haus frau April 22, 2021 10:12 AM  

She didn't face certain harm. She could have waited for the toxically masculine campus police to escort her. She created the whole situation.

Blogger ScottC April 22, 2021 10:13 AM  

The men in this culture are very protective (and tolerant) of women, but they don't know what they're protecting them from.

If women can't fend for themselves, they are not self-sufficient and can never be "liberated" in any real sense. Giving women physical protection sends the wrong message. It tells women that they can have all of the privileges of being a man and of being a woman. It will just embolden them.

Blogger Paul Bonneau April 22, 2021 10:14 AM  

I think the timing matters. Years ago, the natural tendency would have been to protect women, even women being idiots; and it would be hard to fault that. It's probably even in our genes.

But this is 2021. We all know what is going on, we know there is or soon will be a war. We have to harden our hearts, and let Darwin do his job.

Blogger Teleport me off this rock April 22, 2021 10:16 AM  

@1 - He's lucky that nothing happened while he was "escorting" her, because if he had used any force, whose side do you think the stupid cow would come down on? She'd thrown him under the bus in a heartbeat.

Burnt finger teaches best, because "experience keeps a dear school, but fools will learn in no other".

Blogger Jose Miguel April 22, 2021 10:16 AM  

@VD

Anyone who hides from others that they are on the road to Hell is part of the problem.

A thousand times yes! My Tejano crew have rejected aiding Latinxrs who suddenly got fearful of their new "friends." Make people walk their talk, most never learn otherwise.

Blogger ToTheRightRon April 22, 2021 10:17 AM  

She learned she can be a prophetess of the new set of books and still have the benefits of the old set of books.

Blogger Maniac April 22, 2021 10:17 AM  

Good rule of thumb: if she's one of those who says she needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle, let her prove it.

Blogger rcocean April 22, 2021 10:18 AM  

I have to agree with Vox. Words are a poor substitute for experience. This is just another example of the Center-right refusing to fight or be "mean" in the pursuit of victory. He "gave her a talking to", which he admits probably accomplished nothing. He sounds like a republican congressman.

Blogger Shane Bradman April 22, 2021 10:19 AM  

Alan Moore made Rorschach a great character on accident.

Blogger Teleport me off this rock April 22, 2021 10:21 AM  

Interesting how many of America's "prestigious" universities are also located in some of the most dangerous parts of its most dangerous cities. Almost like there's some sort of connection . . .

Blogger John Best. April 22, 2021 10:23 AM  

I am now learning this at 28 within my own life. If you are kind to dysfunctional woman they simply take full advantage of it and complain about you not being kind enough. If you set down hard boundaries and stick them, don't allow other people to drain you emotionally, they quickly change their behaviour toward you and treat you in a decent manner. In the story the women was attacking the man and draining him emotionally, then expecting him to still protect her, further draining him emotionally. So this is happening on a civilizational level. So you enabling your own destruction. No good deed goes unpunished.

Blogger The Observer April 22, 2021 10:25 AM  

I know what you're saying. But damn... I don't know if I have that coldness in my heart. Would you? Would you knowingly let a young lady walk into certain physical harm or even death to let a naïve young lady learn her lesson?

In the past, she was supposed to have a father, a brother, a husband, or if venerable enough, a son who would have done this for her.

Past societies smartly afforded unowned, for lack of a better term, women no protections. They tended to become owned by someone or the other in short order. Having the hubris to imagine that you're better than all those dumb people of the past is common in this day and age, but no less disastrous.

Blogger Barbarossa April 22, 2021 10:27 AM  

His primary mistake was that he got caught monologuing. Far better to have said nothing and walked away. Resist the temptation for a parting jab like "Enjoy your diversity, bitch." Nothing conveys contempt better than withering silence. His second mistake was that he was wearing the cape, metaphorically speaking. He wanted to play the white knight; he didn't want to see her get her teeth kicked in. He really didn't want her to pay the price for her treason. He truly didn't understand his own heart. Then again, very few do.

Blogger Damelon Brinn April 22, 2021 10:28 AM  

Would you knowingly let a young lady walk into certain physical harm or even death to let a naïve young lady learn her lesson?

She wasn't naive. You're projecting that on her because of your protective feelings. It's clear from the way she begged him to guard her that she *knew* those blacks were dangerous and a 6'10" white man wasn't. She was lying in her presentation of "toxic white masculinity," for pay and/or for social acclaim. And then she had the gall to ask for help from the man she'd just encouraged others to attack.

An innocent girl who was about to walk into danger she didn't understand would be a completely different scenario.

Blogger nbfdmd April 22, 2021 10:30 AM  

Richard Holmes wrote:I know what you're saying. But damn... I don't know if I have that coldness in my heart. Would you? Would you knowingly let a young lady walk into certain physical harm or even death to let a naïve young lady learn her lesson?

I just don't think I do. Perhaps I am the problem.


You're far worse than any SJW.

Blogger RadixMalorum April 22, 2021 10:31 AM  

Richard Holmes wrote:I know what you're saying. But damn... I don't know if I have that coldness in my heart. Would you? Would you knowingly let a young lady walk into certain physical harm or even death to let a naïve young lady learn her lesson?

I just don't think I do. Perhaps I am the problem.


I'd let her be thrown feet first into a meat grinder. I feel physical disgust for people who hate their own race, gender, or culture. Those types of people will need to be purged eventually one way or another anyway if civilization is to survive or be rebuilt.

Allowing them to continue to thrive by enabling their cancerous ways makes you complicit.

Blogger gcdugas April 22, 2021 10:32 AM  

Agree 100%. God says they will eat of the fruit of their ways.

20Wisdom crieth without; she uttereth her voice in the streets:

21She crieth in the chief place of concourse, in the openings of the gates: in the city she uttereth her words, saying,

22How long, ye simple ones, will ye love simplicity? and the scorners delight in their scorning, and fools hate knowledge?

23Turn you at my reproof: behold, I will pour out my spirit unto you, I will make known my words unto you.

24Because I have called, and ye refused; I have stretched out my hand, and no man regarded;

25But ye have set at nought all my counsel, and would none of my reproof:

26I also will laugh at your calamity; I will mock when your fear cometh;

27When your fear cometh as desolation, and your destruction cometh as a whirlwind; when distress and anguish cometh upon you.

28Then shall they call upon me, but I will not answer; they shall seek me early, but they shall not find me:

29For that they hated knowledge, and did not choose the fear of the LORD:

30They would none of my counsel: they despised all my reproof.

31Therefore shall they eat of the fruit of their own way, and be filled with their own devices.

32For the turning away of the simple shall slay them, and the prosperity of fools shall destroy them.

33But whoso hearkeneth unto me shall dwell safely, and shall be quiet from fear of evil.

Blogger Daniel April 22, 2021 10:40 AM  

"No, m'lady, please allow this toxic white male to walk you, alone, in the dark, where no one will ever be able to disprove your side of the story. Just let me mansplain a little as my reward."

It wasn't just weak to walk her out alone. It was suicidal.

This is Derek Chauvin-level "policing while white" stupidity.

Blogger Some Guy April 22, 2021 10:47 AM  

To quote Bill Burr, "There are no feminist's in a house fire." He should have walked away.

Blogger KPKinSunnyPhiladelphia April 22, 2021 10:52 AM  

Kindness is a virtue when (a) it helps a person who deserves it and (b) is appreciated.

Both conditions have to apply.

When kindness is shown to a person who doesn't deserve it, it quite often enables vice.

Blogger Dave April 22, 2021 10:53 AM  

Hammer and nail. Couldn't be any clearer? She certainly lacked the conviction of her words when it came time to put it to the test.

Blogger SemiSpook37 April 22, 2021 10:55 AM  

Seems someone picked this up over on QuodVerum and is taking issue with the direct approach, Vox. Dude loses the argument with the ad hominems, especially when he calls you "sociopathic" and "wannabe Italian orc".

I have two daughters. The wife and I have no problems calling them dumbasses when they do stupid things. Of course, they have to go through the situation that caused them to do the stupid thing(s) we rightly call stupid. We discuss, and then move on.

Personally, I see nothing sinister here. Some folks just have to learn the hard way. The females that insist on going into the Middle East to bring peace only to be found raped and murdered come to mind as prime examples of this. I mean, if he wants to invoke Jesus, he seems to forget flipping tables and whipping people in the Temple for turning it into a bazaar is well within His repertoire in getting people to learn.

Blogger Evangeline April 22, 2021 10:55 AM  

I understand the frustration of the man's experience. I also understand reality and crime. But we ought to fight presumption about people, because mindless hatred is a real thing. We need to remind ourselves of the many great people of color in our nation, people who agree with us on principle and in fact. We have many more allies in those communities than we did even 5 years ago. How ignorant of us to ignore them now and pretend they don't exist, to lump them in with criminals. All the progress, gone by our own hand.
Do we have gentlemen anymore? Is it really manly to leave a woman to face a threat alone. I would suggest she ought to have called campus security and waited the hour. Safer for her as well as the gentleman. He might have offered to wait there with her and had conversation about what was on his mind. A mind might have been opened.
Our world cannot do without men. Our nation cannot do without men. Our culture cannot do without men. Our families cannot do without men. Has anyone noticed men do 99.9% of the heroic acts of valor? Who saves people in trouble, or helpless creatures. Invariably, it is a man, who has used his physical strength, quick reflexes, and the desire to help the helpless, to protect the weaker, to save one more life. This is hard-wired into a man if he is not a deranged sociopath. Should a man really stand back and allow a woman to be molested, raped, or mugged, to "teach her a lesson"? I would posit a man who would think or do such a thing is no man, and the society that believes that a good thing is already hell on earth and who would want to live there.

Blogger CA3 April 22, 2021 11:04 AM  

As Tyrone would say, "Never be Captain save a hoe."

Blogger Anthea April 22, 2021 11:08 AM  

When I was much younger and going to college, I lived in a cheap, studio apartment in a neighborhood that rapidly, almost overnight, turned black. First, all the white shopkeepers left, replaced by diversity. Then my neighbors left, and before I knew it, I was practically the only white face around. I quit college and got a decent paying job, saved my money, made plans to move out, and got a gun. In the meantime, I was a victim of a crime 7 times. From my car being broken into, a mugging, and, thank God for my gun, only attempted muggings thereon. All the perps were young, black males.

I couldn't move out fast enough. I knew who to be afraid of.

Blogger Canada78Bear April 22, 2021 11:08 AM  

The key point in the statement for not helping is that SHE just finished bashing people like the Man who helped her.

She clearly and openly stabs him in the back in future interactions. She has openly sided with evil and cannot possibly understand why unless she faces consequences of her actions.

Having gone through CPR training that included liability info you will be punished for helping in certain jurisdictions. Your imagination for how to help doesn't trump reality.

This guy is lucky he didn't face false Metoo allegations.

Blogger Storm Rhode April 22, 2021 11:09 AM  

Its like addiction. Addiction is a thousand forms of self delusion that things are okay when they are clearly not to anyone around the addict. There is a saying to never get in the way of an addict finding their bottom. They have to fall so far before they realize they were wrong and they have to change. Enabling the addict prolongs the agony of the addiction to the addict and the people who care about the addict. Giving them money to buy booze seems human in the moment, but it makes you part of the problem.

If the lady had walked to her car alone and been assaulted her views would have changed and she would have become a different person. As it was, she probably shrugged things off and smiled at how clever she was to insult a big dumb guy with her speech, 'simp?', and then convince him to help her. Toxic masculinity indeed.

Blogger 7916 April 22, 2021 11:15 AM  

@32 and @1

If there is one thing a time traveler could do to save western civilization and european peoples, it would be to find any creator of Le'mort de Arthur and give them swift death.

The concept of the white knight is the same as the concept of free speech, and just as deadly over time to civilization.

Blogger Steve Canyon April 22, 2021 11:16 AM  

1v10 or even 1v5 is bad odds. You can't defend your rear guard effectively during an attack. You might take out one or 2 of them, but one of them's going to circle behind you and take you out. Then you get curbstomped.

And he's sitting there, in a dark night, not much background noise, moralizing about how she needs to make white kids to this group of youfs?

Something doesn't add up here.

Blogger VD April 22, 2021 11:16 AM  

But we ought to fight presumption about people, because mindless hatred is a real thing. We need to remind ourselves of the many great people of color in our nation, people who agree with us on principle and in fact. We have many more allies in those communities than we did even 5 years ago.

You're a babbling idiot, Evangeline. The age of ideology politics is over. Go kneel with your BLM masters.

Should a man really stand back and allow a woman to be molested, raped, or mugged, to "teach her a lesson"?

Yes. Especially if she subscribes to "toxic masculinity". Only it's not about teaching her a lesson, it's about refusing to take responsibility for her.

I would posit a man who would think or do such a thing is no man, and the society that believes that a good thing is already hell on earth and who would want to live there.

As I said, you're a babbling idiot. First, men have zero responsibility for women who have disowned their race and sex. Second, God Himself laughs at the calamity women have chosen. He even warns that a society ruled by women is a curse.

Blogger basementhomebrewer April 22, 2021 11:17 AM  

If you think this is cold, if you think this is inhuman, remember that the Enemy is quite literally already using this tactic to great effect on the populace, and they are using it for evil. There are 2 very obvious ones going right now.

1.) Corona-Chan, They pumped the fear up to 11 and ran it continuously on the news, making people beg for lock down, masks, restrictions etc, which they gladly expanded their power to accomplish. Then, for more fun, they cranked those restrictions to 11 where they could, to push people towards getting an untested vaccine so we can "get back to normal". They are now working the phase where they make people cry out for vaccine passports. We will see if people keep walking this fear treadmill.


2.) The BLM riots. They are purposely creating the situations that allow the riots to occur, and to create maximum damage and mayhem. This pushes people towards calling for more police controls, more police powers, and more money from the government to pay for the resulting wreckage. We are in the phase right now where they are empowering the mob to push for a reduction in police powers. When those go away, people will eventually demand a very big increase in police powers and those powers will not be prioritized to control the mob, other than in the immediate aftermath of granting them, but to control the average person.


Note that neither of these two strategies employed by the enemy is actually allowing people to experience NATURAL consequences, but instead to experience consequences to situations they have synthetically created. That is where the dividing line is between good and evil on these tactics. The good advocate people experiencing natural consequences so that they will return to logos. The evil create the consequences to herd people into giving them more power to "fix them".

Blogger Doktor Jeep April 22, 2021 11:17 AM  

Not only would I have left her to her own consequences I would have lit her up with my headlights on the way out.

Most women, after their works have destroyed civilization, will get a choice of rape gang or warlords harem...if they look good enough for the latter.
And I'm not going to do a damned thing about it.
Heck I used to be all in that patriot shit until I realized that the only thing people do with freedom is self indulgence, stuffing their fat faces, and wrecking the freedom of others. Now there is nothing to defend with guns and most of the people deserve what's coming to them. To defend anything by, for, and of the present system is to defend people who deserve no defense.
Let it burn.

Yeah I'm callous, evil, and all that. Bruce Charlton thinks I dont believe God exists but that demons are real. He's wrong. I'm well aware that God is the one punishing us.
And He should.

Blogger Chris Ritchie April 22, 2021 11:23 AM  

There is a place for mercy and forgiveness, but only in response to genuine repentance, not momentary uncertainty and fear. In the absence of repentance, never stand between Justice and her lawful prey.

Damn. It's almost as if this guy's a writer... ;-)

"...never stand between Justice and her lawful prey."

Seriously - GREAT line!

Blogger Pierre April 22, 2021 11:27 AM  

The conservative adjusts his bowtie. "But! We should show mercy to those who want us dead and would give us no quarter, and if they're in trouble of course we should defend them!"

Blogger Lazy Hero April 22, 2021 11:28 AM  

In 2007 I was working in San Fran Freako. One weekend afternoon through a storefront window I witnessed an argument between an old White men and diversity on Columbus Ave. in North Beach start to escalate. The 2 homos in the store screeched to call the police to each other, meanwhile I asked myself could I watch this old man get stomped out. I decided not and ran across the street to give aid, knowing full well diversity was probably armed and I wasn't. So I get there, and the old man's old wife was making a show of wiping off the car where the collision or whatever occurred, yeah that made it better. I also noticed all the peacenik hippy BS bumper stickers on the old couple's car and then noticed the old leftist hippy look of the couple. The couple made like all was ok after this. And I didn't get involved. Reflecting back on this, had I acted to help them they would've completely thrown me under the bus. Moral of the story, today I would gladly and happily watch an old leftist couple be brutalized by diversity, no problem...

Blogger Chris Ritchie April 22, 2021 11:33 AM  

@28 - When kindness is shown to a person who doesn't deserve it, it quite often enables vice.

This is what I saw in a church's inner city ministry. The same people would come week after week and get free clothes and a meal. Oh sure, we'd pray with them and they'd act like they appreciated it. After awhile, I started wondering why they constantly needed the clothes. I asked the director - a woman of course.

"They don't have anywhere to wash them so they wear them once and throw them away."

They're always bumming money. They can't go to a laundromat?

I quit shortly after than and never returned.

Blogger Gregory the Tall April 22, 2021 11:36 AM  

The same goes for all those who will accuse you of being antivaxxers. Let them have the "jab" and all its updates until they learn to finally or fatally understand.

Blogger Pedro the Cat April 22, 2021 11:36 AM  

@32

Why do women always feel the need to be telling men how to be men?

This idiot college harpy just gets finished telling all men that they are guilty of "toxic masculinity" and then ask them to use some of it to protect them? As has already been commented upon here it would be stupid to even associate with this harridan and possibly be accused of some sort of date rape or something similar.

In short, Evangeline, your scenario does ZERO to rectify the mindset of the idiot girl in question. Nothing is resolved, nothing is proven wrong. You would protect this "girl" and consign the rest of feminist society to believing her bullshit. Let her implement her own mindset into her own life, which she won't even do, even RIGHT AFTER she gives the lecture!

As a matter of fact, I would posit that women themselves need to get more involved with clowns like this student,and tell them they are full of it. These fools certainly wouldn't accept the truth from someone with "toxic masculinity"!

Blogger tdcommenter April 22, 2021 11:38 AM  

@31 No authority, no responsibility.

This woman clearly does not want the huwite man to have authority over her.

Taking care of women's problems despite their own decisions leads to men marrying single mothers with offspring from 3 different baby daddies. Not my life, but look up Better Bachelor or Aaron Clarey and videos about modern dating profiles. This is where we are at.

Besides, the worst that the female lecturer would had to endure was an hour wait to stew over consequences.

Blogger Stryker4570 April 22, 2021 11:40 AM  

' He even warns that a society ruled by women is a curse.'

Isaiah 3:11-13

'11 Woe to the wicked! It shall be ill with him,
For the reward of his hands shall be given him.
12
As for My people, children are their oppressors,
And women rule over them.
O My people! Those who lead you cause you to err,
And destroy the way of your paths.”

13
The Lord stands up to plead,
And stands to judge the people.'

Looks like we are under judgement and have been for awile.

Blogger Canadian Warlord April 22, 2021 11:40 AM  

I was attacked by a roving gang on electric scooters. Long story already told here. But the important part is that despite having one of them in custody, the police asked _me_ if I wanted to charge them.

I think it's important that the next person they attack is someone who voted them into the country. Why would I stand in the way of that guaranteed eventual meeting?

Women have brought this mess down upon us. They have all the power and feel no responsibility. I don't think being raped and murdered will convince them otherwise, as with Sweden. They just blame white men more and more.

Thus my Racist Christian Patriarchy Party slogans will be geared towards women. Short advertisements with simple messages:
- Shit-test is over ladies, you know - deep down - you should not be voting.
- Law by law, vote by vote, and rape by rape, women are bringing our country to civil war. Please vote against war.
- Ladies, why are you importing a foreign patriarchy to this country? I thought we already had one?
- Blame the men all you want, it's women who have brought our society here. Vote properly for one, final time.

Blogger Nate April 22, 2021 11:45 AM  

ok.. so I understand posting this... because its a teaching moment... but come on people... lets not pretend any of this actually happened.

This is standard delta/gamma damsel in distress delusion. And its worse than just a lie... its bad because someone may think they could do it too. What our idiot hero is actually doing here is holding out his throat to The Enemy. This girl has everything to gain to by destroying his life. In fact it sounds exactly like their dream scenario... " big white supremacist stalked me and lectured me about evil racists crap all the way to my car!!! I CAN NOT EVEN!!!!! Send me monies!!!!!"

If something like this actually happened it would be like winning the lottery for her. She probably dreams of something like this happening.

And to the guy that made up this idiotic imaginary adventure... Stop. Just stop. You think your made up story makes you look like a badass right winger. It just makes you look like an idiot.

Read more. talk less.

Blogger Elder Son April 22, 2021 11:48 AM  

FFS! Stop being pussy-whipped by people who hate you.

But, but... she's a gurl!

Yeah. I once gave a girl 2 - 3 city blocks to not stab me. Well, after 2 - 3 city blocks, I punched her in the face, like I punched her boyfriend in the face who originally pulled the knife on me.

But, but... she's a gurl!

Guess what? SHE STILL HATES YOU!

Ephesians 5:7 - Therefore do not be partakers with them.

Blogger The Observer April 22, 2021 11:48 AM  

Why do women always feel the need to be telling men how to be men?

Shit-testing. Deliberate bad and destructive behaviour in the hopes that an alpha male will step in, overpower and punish her, and then claim her.

Blogger Krymneth April 22, 2021 11:49 AM  

Evangeline, you are uncivilized.

We generally associate uncivilized with "barbarian". A barbarian is one who breaks the cost/benefits structure that civilization depends on by violently taking away your benefits that you have worked for, thus breaking the "I make decisions -> I experience the results of my decisions" feedback loop that civilization depends on.

However, someone who takes the away the costs of actions is also breaking civilization just as completely. It breaks the costs/benefits just as thoroughly and breaks the feedback loop necessary to keep civilization going.

This also enables the barbarians, because it's not nice to punish them when they violently take away the benefits that others have worked for.

Civilization is no more about being nice all the time than it is about being mean all the time.

So, I say again, Evangeline, you are uncivilized. Not the superior of the civilized, but the inferior, just as the barbarians are.

Blogger Ahuehuete April 22, 2021 11:54 AM  

"It's clear from the way she begged him to guard her that she *knew* those blacks were dangerous and a 6'10" white man wasn't. She was lying in her presentation of "toxic white masculinity," for pay and/or for social acclaim."

They know that everything they spew is a lie, but they do it in the hope of landing a six figure job where they just have to sit in meetings and not solve any real problems.

Blogger johndoe03526 April 22, 2021 11:56 AM  

My, my, wasn't it racist for that young woman to believe those negroes represented a threat to her? LOL

Blogger FP April 22, 2021 11:58 AM  

Oh, Evangeline thank you for the daily Slit-splaining.

I shall now go out and change the tire for the next woman I see whose car has a flat on the side of the highway instead of letting her call AAA service with her cellphone.

Blogger Unknown April 22, 2021 12:00 PM  

In my younger years as an attorney I did a fair amount of civil litigation centered on business disputes. I was also stupid, so I saw it as some Christian/ethical duty to do some pro bono work.

One day I was sent a case by our regional pro bono group-- a woman had set up a fake charity and taken not just outside donations, but in some cases actual funds owed to orphan children. She had a home and some other assets, besides (or as a result of) what she had stolen, so I dropped a suit on her quickly, on behalf of the orphans.

I was lucky that our state had just opened our conversion statute to include the actual thief, not just fences. This allowed multiple damages.

So I win case pretty quickly on a motion, as soon as I get the records from the bank, and thanks to a new at the time expanded judgment lien law I slap everything she had with liens and clean out her accounts.

I turn it all over to the GAL for the kids, proud of doing good.

The local NAACP vice president gets super pissed and tried to get me banned from doing legal work for the hospital and its groups, because the evil doer was black. You know who had my back? No one black.

The orphans were black. Didn't matter.

Lucky for me the hospital was run by a mix of white, Muslim, and Indian docs.

And even reasonable professional blacks acted like spoiled children towards me for months after.

I have never and will never help a black again. I don't care if it is legal. First aid. Fell down on an icy sidewalk. House is on fire. Don't care.

Blogger tdcommenter April 22, 2021 12:02 PM  

Captain Capitalism laid it out 4 years ago:
Western women don't deserve your protection https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YJpCp-5WT5M

Blogger RA April 22, 2021 12:03 PM  

It's a hard lesson for the shirkers among us. I've been one too.

But sometimes one has to stand aside in order to let the other person touch the hot stove. Words have meaning.

Blogger FUBARwest April 22, 2021 12:06 PM  

Some rapper's advice is warranted here. Never be Captain Save'A'Hoe.

Blogger MATT April 22, 2021 12:11 PM  

6'10"?..he should have just told her to bend over and get ready for some white babies

Blogger NedFlinders April 22, 2021 12:14 PM  

To the extent this story is actually plausible, the proper response (in this day and age) is to tell her you'll escort her if she smiles for your phone camera and tells it "I'm asking this straight, white, christian man to escort me to my car because it's dark and I'm afraid of the negroes between here and my destination."

If she complies then by the time she's gotten home she'll realize that she may as well drop the anti-white crusader shit because whatever career she builds out of it can be torpedoed by yourself at any moment.

Blogger Frosty the Bear April 22, 2021 12:21 PM  

Evangeline wrote:Do we have gentlemen anymore? Is it really manly to leave a woman to face a threat alone.

That young woman was a disciple of Jezebel.

Blogger KingKrawFish April 22, 2021 12:28 PM  

He should’ve stuck to his original take on the situation.

Blogger MichaelJMaier April 22, 2021 12:29 PM  

I personally had a short, fat woman turn down my brother and I walking her to her car at 2am because "I can handle myself".

That cow couldn't handle a flight of stairs.

This isn't implausible.

Blogger NedFlinders April 22, 2021 12:30 PM  

You know, I think the lamest part of this story is that the writer even goes out of his way to specify that leaving her to her own devices would have cost her *gasp* a whole hour of her life waiting for campus security to arrive.

Meanwhile the pitiful showing of the he-man womun haters club never ceases to disgust. Get one thing straight now and forever. The very fact that women have power in our societies is because we men have been weak for decades and ARE STILL weak. Women have no responsibility to wield influence with wisdom and temperance. Bitching impotently about how "they ruined everything" is as repugnant as a parent complaining that their child simply refuses to clean his room.

Women are merely one step above children. A child running amok indicates a problem with the mother. Women running amok indicates a problem with the men. And don't @ me with whiny excuses about the government. If we had enough collective testicular mass this nonsense could be over with by the end of the month. Responsibility ends with man, not woman.

Blogger Gulo Gulo April 22, 2021 12:31 PM  

6"10" tall ??. What does the guy have Marfan Syndrome.? I agree with Nate..its fake!

Blogger VD April 22, 2021 12:33 PM  

This is how a real man treats a woman who makes herself an enemy of her own kind, Evangeline.

Now when Jehu arrived in Jezreel, Jezebel heard of it. So she painted her eyes, adorned her head, and looked down from a window. And as Jehu entered the gate, she asked, “Have you come in peace, O Zimri, murderer of your master?”

He looked up at the window and called out, “Who is on my side? Who?” And two or three eunuchs looked down at him.

“Throw her down!” yelled Jehu. So they threw her down, and her blood splattered on the wall and on the horses as they trampled her underfoot.

Blogger FacelessBro April 22, 2021 12:36 PM  

"Read more. talk less."

Words to live by.

Blogger Canadian Warlord April 22, 2021 12:36 PM  

I've been the security guard tasked with walking women to their car. Old building, poor camera coverage, easy access to the parking garage, bad neighborhood. My limited experience is that most times women just want to chat with someone and wind down for a few minutes after a busy day. I doubt they're always scared - don't forget they're social creatures. Maybe it helps them feel important?

Blogger tdcommenter April 22, 2021 12:36 PM  

If the reluctant gentleman gets hit with harassment charges, since she might want to teach him a lesson for daring to standup for whiteness, I'm just going recite the fable of the frog and the scorpion.

Blogger DAMN SON April 22, 2021 12:39 PM  

>Rape is bad*
>*Terms and conditions apply
utter rhetorical seppuku. if rapists don't fear for their life under threat of arms, youve torn out the roots of civilization itself. it's not a left vs right issue, nor a feminist vs trad issue, nor even a question of simping, it's a requisite of society itself. considering one of the first places rapists and abusers operate is in churches of any denomination, this is not the topic to be caught sleeping on.

Blogger Taignobias April 22, 2021 12:39 PM  

To quote June Cleaver, "Chump don' want no help, chump don' GIT da help. Jive-ass mama don't got no brains anyhow."

Blogger urthshu April 22, 2021 12:55 PM  

>>>Seems someone picked this up over on QuodVerum and is taking issue with the direct approach, Vox. Dude loses the argument with the ad hominems, especially when he calls you "sociopathic" and "wannabe Italian orc".

Sociopathic would be pushing her into the mob. Vox isn't saying that at all.

Blogger glueballs April 22, 2021 12:57 PM  

I’ve had a cold heart since I was young. Probably from dad forcing me to box and wrestle or gramps teaching me to hunt and fish. It’s been exhibited multiple times through my life and contaminated my sweetheart, fortunately.

The incident which turned my wife of 20+ years stands out. I know CPR backwards and forwards. I once kept performing CPR, including breaths, solo for fifteen minutes on an old sedentary patent lawyer in the firm’s office and he survived. That wasn’t easy.

A few years later, walking with my wife, we stumbled upon a gaggle of negroes attending to an elderly, fat negro male who had collapsed and it was difficult to determine for how long since you couldn’t see whether his lips or any other skin were blue.

A negress beseeched me, “Ya’ll know CPR?!” I replied that, yes, I do. “This man heart attack. Hep ‘im!” My wife looked at me and slowed down as I continued walking. I lifted the wife by her waist band into me and off the ground as I continued walking into the distance and homewards.

The sheboon kept screeching and her entourage erupted into the customary nignog jabbery. I read the next day the collapsed negro had perished. The wife berated me. Two weeks later I showed her the published mugshots of the dead man’s fambily, same address, who had shot up their “community” in a drug deal gone bad.

The wife has been based since. We won’t so much as micturate on a burning negro even if we’re bladder-heavy. Same goes for traitors like the progressive c_nt here. We are at war, no mercy, do you believe the enemies will grant you and yours mercy? Fool.

Blogger Karen took the Kids April 22, 2021 12:57 PM  

No doubt the black gentlemen were just a Thomas Sowell book club debating monetary policy and the dangers of a welfare state.
Had she been joggered and survived she would have blamed slavery and systemic racism for their actions anyway.
Liars and traitors need to face the consequences of their actions.

Blogger AsunderBear April 22, 2021 12:59 PM  

100% A man is obligated to protect his family. He is under no obligation to protect some random woman who made a series of terrible decisions. What if you get killed attempting to help some THOT? Who is going to look after your daughters at that point?

Blogger Desdichado April 22, 2021 1:06 PM  

But we ought to fight presumption about people, because mindless hatred is a real thing. We need to remind ourselves of the many great people of color in our nation, people who agree with us on principle and in fact. We have many more allies in those communities than we did even 5 years ago. How ignorant of us to ignore them now and pretend they don't exist, to lump them in with criminals. All the progress, gone by our own hand.

Oh, sure. There's plenty of good brown and black and yellow people in the world. I harbor them no ill will, and I'm happy to see them prospering in their own cultures and countries. That said, I'm also running out of patience for their continued presence as increasingly unruly and unwelcome guests in white people's countries. The party's over folks. Time to go back home.

Do we have gentlemen anymore? Is it really manly to leave a woman to face a threat alone. I would suggest she ought to have called campus security and waited the hour. Safer for her as well as the gentleman. He might have offered to wait there with her and had conversation about what was on his mind. A mind might have been opened.

Have your cake and eat it too, eh? No thanks.

Our world cannot do without men. Our nation cannot do without men. Our culture cannot do without men. Our families cannot do without men. Has anyone noticed men do 99.9% of the heroic acts of valor? Who saves people in trouble, or helpless creatures. Invariably, it is a man, who has used his physical strength, quick reflexes, and the desire to help the helpless, to protect the weaker, to save one more life. This is hard-wired into a man if he is not a deranged sociopath. Should a man really stand back and allow a woman to be molested, raped, or mugged, to "teach her a lesson"? I would posit a man who would think or do such a thing is no man, and the society that believes that a good thing is already hell on earth and who would want to live there.

Y'know what real men don't do? Accept direction and definition from a woman about what a man is supposed to be or supposed to do. While what you say has some merit, it's completely and totally irrelevent given that the person asking for protection just literally got done preaching the opposite. Well, respect what she claims to want. No toxic white masculinity for you.

Maybe respect isn't quite the right word, since her attitude is beyond contemptible. But if she quite literally was asking for it, let her have it. Feminists claim that women are equal to men and don't need them? Critical race theorists presuppose that there's no difference between black and white men, and in fact white men are the real villains? Well, that walk was exactly the world she asked for and worked for; one in which women are exposed to the natural inclinations of black men without white men to protect them. Have at it, sugartits. It's all yours.

Blogger Pathfinderlight April 22, 2021 1:06 PM  

@Evangeline

Men are thinking, feeling individuals with our own goals, dreams, values, and desires. We are NOT meat shield wallets for you to throw at your problems.

How dare you define a man who doesn't act for your benefit as "not a man". That is absurd. Let's flip the script to show you how absurd:

[If you don't walk into the crowd of ruffians and willingly have sex with them all, you're not a woman.]

Do you see now how what you're saying is not just disgustingly manipulative and toxic, but evil? A healthy relationship between any two people includes a mutual respect for each other's goals, dreams, values, and desires.

Blogger Servant April 22, 2021 1:26 PM  

Quodverum wants a world where his daughters are safe to only have sex with the men they choose for the evening. Probably believes women should go to university. Probably one of those types that is excited by how many men find his daughter attractive.

Fathers guard your daughters. It's your job and you can't expect anyone to do it for you. Indeed if someone does step in it's a merciful God correcting your error.

Blogger OneWingedShark April 22, 2021 1:42 PM  

AsunderBear wrote:100% A man is obligated to protect his family. He is under no obligation to protect some random woman who made a series of terrible decisions. What if you get killed attempting to help some THOT? Who is going to look after your daughters at that point?
It's more than that: the very-extended-family that is a nation is in play here.
You see, by her embracing "toxic, white masculinity" she was disowning the white-males in the nation, she kicked them out of her nation.

Desdichado wrote:Y'know what real men don't do? Accept direction and definition from a woman about what a man is supposed to be or supposed to do. While what you say has some merit, it's completely and totally irrelevent given that the person asking for protection just literally got done preaching the opposite. Well, respect what she claims to want. No toxic white masculinity for you.
It occurs to me we have a saying for this: "You made the bed, now lie in it."
Applying this would solve a lot of problems.

Blogger lynnjynh9315 April 22, 2021 1:52 PM  

"Never stand between Justice and her lawful prey."

That's a damn good proverb.

Blogger Avalanche April 22, 2021 1:56 PM  

@6 "Her hearing "No. You're a traitor and you're not worth risking my life" might have been an actual wake-up call for her."

Problem is: you're asking HIM to risk HIS life on behalf of a traitor. Doesn't matter if it's a girl; shave her damned head and strip her naked in public for selling out her own people! Failing that: let her walk past her "good friends, the poor oppressed" on her own. She CHOSE them! (Toxic White masculinity.... {gag})

In what other circumstances would ANY of you suggest one of ours risk his life or health FOR A TRAITOR!?!?

This is a standing problem with 'our' men: they cannot differentiate between OUR women and traitor women -- because they look alike. This 'b|tch' would have happily let HIM get railroaded into jail because BLM says she should. So, on what basis should he "feel responsible" for protecting her from her own mistakes?

Blogger Avalanche April 22, 2021 2:02 PM  

@21 "Far better to have said nothing and walked away. Resist the temptation for a parting jab like "Enjoy your diversity, bitch." Nothing conveys contempt better than withering silence."

This implies, does it not, that this woman would have looked to her OWN actions for a cause; rather than castigating him forevermore in her own weak mind. Followed by further castigation to the police, the school, and the internet, that HE was wrong to not protect her?

You are no longer dealing with "normal" women. You must not assume they will learn without sticking their hand on the stove! With children, you must SPELL. IT. OUT. There is no way on this planet or any other that this woman would have figured out WHY 'that mean man' would not leap to protect her, as every man EVER has done, even AS she calls them toxic!

Blogger Doug Cranmer April 22, 2021 2:05 PM  

glueballs wrote:“Ya’ll know CPR?!” I replied that, yes, I do. “This man heart attack. Hep ‘im!”

It's always that, isn't it? It wouldn't even occur to them to learn CPR, it's for us to know and provide on demand.

You see the same kind of thing with immigrants. I work in tech and of course I'm surrounded by diversity. And the attitude that things are just supposed to be there to support them is everywhere.

From some pajeet diversity hire female "manager" hiring other pajeets who cannot properly document their work and the expectation that you will essentially do it for them, to AA's only working here a few years who end up taking a year off for maternity leave and we have to pay for it.

I've experienced countless other examples. We are just expected to be suckers.

It's over for me. It's completely over.

Blogger Avalanche April 22, 2021 2:16 PM  

@31 "We need to remind ourselves of the many great people of color in our nation, people who agree with us on principle and in fact."

First, they are NOT in our nation. People of color do not and cannot belong to our nation. Are you still so new here that you do not know these terms?

Second: You sound like the kind of sell-out who is happy to 'welcome 'a black family into your neighborhood," because SOME (FEW) blacks blacks make good neighbors. ANd then two and then three -- and "suddenly" it's ghetto city, and no longer a nice safe-ish White neighborhood. And the "nice" blacks WANT to move into our neighborhoods because they are nice and safe-ish... It AIN'T Magic Dirt! And it looks as nice as it does because WHITE people prefer it that way.

You seem to be suggesting that because SOME poisonous snakes don't bite when you pet them; therefore it's perfectly FINE to walk through a couple of snake pits full of snakes that may or may NOT be poisonous. AND you would have a 'toxic White male' risk his own safety to allow you to walk through those snake pits!

Evangaline, you are naive, and seemingly also perfectly willing to sell out OUR men, so you aren't perceived as 'mean' or 'racist.' How many of your "good black folks" do you see trying to STOP BLM and the burning and killing and raping and shooting? Be quiet and keep reading here; you know nothing about the oncoming war.

Blogger Noah B. April 22, 2021 2:20 PM  

My limited experience is that most times women just want to chat with someone and wind down for a few minutes after a busy day. I doubt they're always scared - don't forget they're social creatures. Maybe it helps them feel important?

This is a fear response. There's something about women that makes them believe they're safer when they're talking. I know it sounds bizarre but I've seen situations just like what you describe many times.

Blogger Captain Barnacles April 22, 2021 2:23 PM  

Great to see my comment posted by the philosopher-king. Even if it’s an example of how to fail, it’s an honor.

“6"10" tall ??. What does the guy have Marfan Syndrome.? I agree with Nate..its fake!”

Plenty of white people out there are my size or taller. Maybe not in the U.S., but in my mother’s hometown in Iceland, there are dudes over 6’6”, and two were taller than me. I am guessing that is similar to Minnesota?

Nate- you have probably seen me wrestle. I started out in ACW, then SSW for two years. Then Memphis. Also, I am an Omega, not a gamma.

And to the guy who thinks im lying, because a group of negroes are unbeatable or something, have you ever seen how negroes react to a bigger guy? Also, hit them with body shots. Their heads are harder than ours.

For those saying I was simping, a useful idiot, it’s true. A lesson learned. In my defense, that was 2010. Please keep in mind, it was two years before most conservatives voted for Mitt Romney. Hell, some people here probably supported the Gay Mulatto at that time.

Blogger Barbarossa April 22, 2021 2:34 PM  

@84 You are quite correct that she would never examine her own action for causes, but I doubt any word uttered by mortal man would get her to do so. Similarly, I gave up trying to teach my dog trigonometry after a few lessons. I felt my instruction was quite clear, but the beast kept chasing squirrels every time I got to a crucial point. Also, I think we can invoke Mark Twain's admonition about arguing with idiots: First, they drag you down to their level and then they beat you with experience.

Since no lecture this guy gave that gal was going to penetrate her skull, there was no upside in engaging. But, by sticking around, he gives her time to look at him with those soft, helpless eyes and opportunity to put her soft hands on his arm with the implication of "My, aren't you strong? And I'm...so weak."

The average man is no match for even a semi-ugly woman when it comes to this sort of stuff. Feminine wiles and all that. That's why you walk away. That's why Odysseus tied himself to the mast. That's why you don't say anything. That's how the police get you to talk without a lawyer present. Just making conversation, ya know.

Blogger wgmeisheid April 22, 2021 2:36 PM  

Richard Holmes wrote:I know what you're saying. But damn... I don't know if I have that coldness in my heart. Would you? Would you knowingly let a young lady walk into certain physical harm or even death to let a naïve young lady learn her lesson?

I just don't think I do. Perhaps I am the problem.


Yes you are because Proverbs 1:27-28 has your biblical answer.
"When your fear cometh as desolation, and your destruction cometh as a whirlwind; when distress and anguish cometh upon you. Then shall they call upon me, but I will not answer; they shall seek me early, but they shall not find me:"

If God is not going to answer them, well isn't it obvious, neither should you. Cast off your false guilt and what amounts to disobedience and embrace playing for the right team.

Blogger BeatYourHeadIn April 22, 2021 2:37 PM  

I agree with your observations on the effects of women in politics, but I see the main issue as an historic rise in the % of men who are gamma and lambda.

There appears to be a deficiency in the alpha/bravo/delta triad that would normally be diverting the general female attention to raising children. There's not enough legitimate statused males to control the zeitgeist of equity found in the female psyche. This force, that would be otherwise useful in the family setting, has been unleashed for over a century with increasing intensity on society, where it does much more harm than good.

BTW you're clearly not gay or gamma based on your regular posts here so I'm not placing you in the problem causing category.

Blogger Avalanche April 22, 2021 2:41 PM  

@70 "most times women just want to chat with someone and wind down for a few minutes after a busy day. I doubt they're always scared - don't forget they're social creatures. Maybe it helps them feel important?"

Whew. No. Women are naturally prey animals; they naturally, usually unconsciously, look for protection. The chatting, the 'being social' with a man from whom they are TAKING something (his time and effort, his protection, the possibility of him being hurt letting HER escape) is part payment for his 'offer' to her.

How do women deal with fear? NETWORKING! By looking to those around them for support and help and 'a group.' Being alone, be shunned or cast out of the tribe MEANS death. It's why women are so easily swayed by their milieu (and thus the destruction of our nation)!

So, by chattering with her protector-escort, she is ensuring his attention on protecting her, else he might wander off and leave her unprotected. And, 'charming' is how women work to get their way' again: consciously or not.

And yes, women are ALWAYS scared. Ask your peers: does a man EVER EVER think to himself, before going down the drive to his mailbox, of he is safe to do so? Even in many dangerous areas; it NEVER crosses him mind. NO woman ever thinks about going down the drive to the mailbox after dark without thinking, however fleetingly, of her safety. Even IF she lives in a safe-ish White area! Men NEVER get this about women's minds!

Alison Armstrong, a good educator, talks about one of her co-ed seminars, where she asked the men to hold up their hands if they have felt physically threatened in the past year. Some hands go up, but few. Okay, if you men have felt a physical threat in the past month, leave your hands up. Fewer hands still up. How 'bout this past week. No hands.

Okay, women: hands up if you have felt physically threatened in the past year. Nearly all hands go up. Past month? Only a few go down. Past week, still only a few go down.

Alison then tells the men: LOOK at how many hands are still up, for having felt physically threatened in the past week. This is not something wrong or strange about women. This is how woman are BUILT to feel. You men generally have no conception of being afraid pretty much most of the time. Nearly all women do!

Think that's stupid, start asking women around you. See if they'll just head out of the house for the mailbox at night. See if they leave a store, at night, at dusk, more and more during the day, withOUT checking their surroundings. Do NOT assume women feel the way you do. Prey vs. predator.

Anonymous Anonymous April 22, 2021 2:45 PM  

There are people who DON'T LEARN even when bad things happen to them.

Remember the guy who hugged his vibrant daughter's murderer? Remember the Norwegian reporter who still felt White Guilt AFTER being sodomized by a vibrant 'migrant'?

Anyone ever read "The Monkey's Paw"? The guy throws the talisman into the fire and it's rescued by the person HE JUST TOLD all the bad things that will come from holding it?

"Better let it burn..." He warns as he takes a gulp of whisky.

Blogger Br1cht April 22, 2021 3:07 PM  

Nate wrote:And to the guy that made up this idiotic imaginary adventure... Stop. Just stop. You think your made up story makes you look like a badass right winger. It just makes you look like an idiot.

Read more. talk less.


Don´t matter how much you read if you, a.Lack basic English reading comprehension and, b. Can´t process facts because of a gammatude that seems rather severe.

You can be the resident "deboonker" if that suit your fancy but does accomplish anything?

Blogger MichaelJMaier April 22, 2021 3:09 PM  

Avalanche, that's a very good point. But, mind you, it only makes a LOT of womens' actions seem even stupider by male standards.

Blogger stevo April 22, 2021 3:14 PM  

I am lucky to live in an area where there is virtually no diversity. My chivalric instincts would immediately lead me to do the "right thing". Protecting vulnerable women seems to be hard wired into me. Even if they are assholes.

Blogger Mr.MantraMan April 22, 2021 3:17 PM  

Much of this current crap could be defused if whites would just ask what can you do for me, if they respond with incivility you owe them nothing if they respond with civility negotiations can begin.

As for women they do not respond to reason and logic, it's not their thing it annoys them the Omega Captain Barnicle now realizes this and he is better off for it.

Blogger bramley bramley bramley April 22, 2021 3:22 PM  

I wonder, how will this all compare to the pain of civil war or the gulag?

We've been binge drinking on a very, very long night, the hangover is going to be a bastard...

Blogger Captain Barnacles April 22, 2021 3:30 PM  

“Since no lecture this guy gave that gal was going to penetrate her skull, there was no upside in engaging. But, by sticking around, he gives her time to look at him with those soft, helpless eyes and opportunity to put her soft hands on his arm with the implication of "My, aren't you strong? And I'm...so weak."

You have nailed it.
This is especially powerful, when you’ve been socialized to play that role your entire life. Usually, it’s better to be a “gentle giant,” than the object of terror. Can’t even go to bars.

My little brother is 6’7”, and married to a 5’2” Japanese woman, who drives him like he were a sled dog. People think it’s funny. It is. It’s also abuse, though.

It takes a Voxian level of rational clarity to resist the same carrot you’ve been trained on your whole life. Most men experience that, at some point.

Blogger Doktor Jeep April 22, 2021 3:30 PM  

I see comments about young women not knowing any better thus to not be left to consequences.

That's an old MRA versus PUA versus MGTOW argument. MRA says that things are not going to improve until women show any sense of justice and fix the system. They are banking on women having that great agency that feminists claim women have.
MGTOW says women have not even any sense of awareness of the misandric system nor enough agency or sense to even care.

The "game" camp says women are just large children that we allow to have cars. They need to be commanded and guided but not held responsible but more importantly, not put in charge of things that life or civilization relies on.

Sadly I have to say that after years of observation the last argument appears to be the correct one. And as an addendum: these children go insane if they never have their own babies. Sorry ladies. Please prove otherwise if you think me wrong.

But treason is treason and in my opinion, a woman who is going to run around screeching about toxic masculinity still does not deserve the protection of men that she actively denigrates, gets laws passed against, and disarms. One does not have to be smart to choose away from doing evil. And if it is out of stupidity or being "programmed", then such people are still a liability. Think of the women brainwashed by the TV commercials to hook up with black men: their gullibility/easily-brainwashed genetics are being shunted out of the white race. That's why I dont care to put a stop to that. "You can have them".

Blogger GAHCindy April 22, 2021 3:32 PM  

Am I the only one that doubts he actually said anything except "Sure, I'll walk you out."?

Blogger Imwill April 22, 2021 3:42 PM  

“Who’s b*tch dis is?”

Blogger Ominous Cowherd April 22, 2021 3:47 PM  

VD wrote:Yes. Especially if she subscribes to "toxic masculinity". Only it's not about teaching her a lesson, it's about refusing to take responsibility for her.
Correct. If she's not your mother or sister, wife or daughter, she's not your problem. If you have responsibilities, DON'T take a risk for someone who is not your responsibility.

Blogger Autarky Bear April 22, 2021 3:57 PM  

I agree. If someone wishes to proclaim from the roof tops that my masculinity is toxic, I will do them the courtesy of withdrawaling access to my masculinity. May they learn the lesson to never bite the hand that feeds you or in this case, mock the men that protect you.

Blogger Imwill April 22, 2021 4:05 PM  

As if you would care enough to follow her SJW career and drop a video that nobody would care about.

What part of “their rules don’t apply to them” do you not understand?

Blogger Imwill April 22, 2021 4:09 PM  

I bet she could handle a big Mac like a champion

Blogger Solon April 22, 2021 4:21 PM  

I almost posted the same thing as you just did here. It comes off better from a woman, so I'm glad you did it and not me.

The funny thing about it is that, I'm a man, and I KNOW that women are perpetually scared, but it doesn't ever come up to conscious forethought for me. Just the other day I was parking my car in a parking lot, and the lady with me asked me to park one space over from my chosen spot. The reason? "The windows in the SUV there are really tinted, I can't tell if anyone is in it."

She says this, and i knew what she was getting at right away, but, again, didn't even cross my mind at all until she brought it up. A predator doesn't fear others. Respect, be cautious around, sure, but not existential fear like a prey animal has.

Men just don't operate from a prey mindset (usually). We know that if we are attacked, we can cause serious harm to the offender in the attempt, making it usually not worth it. Women have no such assurance.

That said, women need to understand this dynamic better too. A man has no reason to care about a woman's existential fear unless she's giving him a reason to. This usually means sex, or family. If you aren't family or sleeping with a guy, don't expect him to stick his neck out for you, and if he does, you should be fuc**ng grateful for it, because he didn't have to do that.

Blogger Colonel Blimp April 22, 2021 4:46 PM  

She had enough agency to see urban yuffs as a danger, she's halfway there. When asked, you should have innocently asked what the problem was?? Are you bothered by men of color. If she said yes, walk her. If she said no, on her way. It sucks but there is no other way than a bit of reality touching some of them at this point

Blogger Mr.MantraMan April 22, 2021 4:47 PM  

Mr. Lind makes the same mistake the young man made, problem being Mr. Lind should know better. Lind put out a real groaner today, basically stating more essays of facts and logic and somehow this will destroy the Left. It was such a groaner that Francis Paretto whose picture is the definition of Boomercon commented on how wonderful of an idea it is.

Blogger Colonel Blimp April 22, 2021 4:49 PM  

And we've come full circle to game theory ten years later....

Blogger DudeThatLovesProverbs April 22, 2021 5:04 PM  

Fools will only learn by reaping the ruin they sowed for themselves.

Blogger Crew April 22, 2021 5:06 PM  

It looks like two BIPOCs engaging in dialog about their lack of opportunity for redemption.

Blogger Captain Barnacles April 22, 2021 6:27 PM  

“Am I the only one that doubts he actually said anything except "Sure, I'll walk you out."?”

Don’t get mad Vox chose me and not you......................
..........
.....,,,......,To make an example of. Ha.

Why is this so hard to believe? It was just the actions of a low SMV dork, red pilled on race but not women, which is the default state in the deep south. Imagine it being said by a fattish, neck-bearded giant, with glasses, his hair in a pony tail, wearing a black leather jacket and tartan kilt combination. Or imagine the first blacksmith you meet in Skyrim, but raised in an eternal Highlander and Anime Convention. There’s always one in every college town. Maybe that will help.

Also/
The Ku Klux Klan were “white knights” in lore ways than one. They actually simped for women many times. In the Deep South, not being a chivalric simp was like an admission that you were a secret cross-dresser or something.

My original point with the comment, is that converged whites have to “fuck around and find out,” which Vox stated much better than I could.

Blogger John Williams April 22, 2021 6:31 PM  

She was a legal adult. Are you assuming she was a minor?

Blogger Dan Karelian April 22, 2021 7:10 PM  

Napoleonic coverture, arranged marriages and a degree of public sex segregation. A recipe for K-selected success in the West.

And these r-selected hoes absolutely have gang rape fantasies with foreigners. There are multiple studies on that. Really the simp giant was trying to keep the hoe from entering the jungle she desires.

Blogger Newscaper312 April 22, 2021 8:02 PM  

@GeronL

Re depopulate ghetto

Yes, more or less.
White cops should absolutely start slow walking response to black on black crime in progress, or in black areas.
Why risk getting crucified as a racist murderer or brutalist, to help a black victim who is just as likely to call for your blood?

May end up with only black cops only for black neighborhoods. They may end up demanding it and we should let them have it, principled chucks be damned.

Also, if the black cops are less competent and more corrupt than the force, that's fine too. It's what they wanted.

Blogger Anonymous Commenter April 22, 2021 8:05 PM  

Had a similar experience once with an SJW female where I worked. Always lecturing me about how "she wasn't a racist, didn't see color, cops were always after the black man, etc" (blah blah de blah). One night, after work she asked me to walk her to her car a couple blocks over, in downtown St. Louis. Turned her down, told her she would be fine since she didn't see color. Turned out that the guy who robbed her did. Somehow she blamed me for her stupidity, point being you can't help these people, so let them reap what they sow.

Blogger Newscaper312 April 22, 2021 8:11 PM  

There are great black men like Clarence Thomas and Thomas So we'll I'm proud to call fellow Americans.
Unlike many here I also acknowledge the existence of a fair number of non-Talented Tenth middle and working class blacks who are responsible family men. No, not just like us, but whom we could coexist with at work or in the same city, if not necessarily in the same neighborhood.
But none of that changes the fact most blacks are not like either group, and will not be.

Blogger Newscaper312 April 22, 2021 8:23 PM  

Heh. Nates right, story is embellished bigly if not complete fiction.
I just checked and 6'10" would put him way over the 99th percentile for height.
And his erection is 12 inches too.

Blogger MidnightSun April 22, 2021 8:34 PM  

Women like the one mentioned should be first in line to be thrown from the helicopters; they are emotionally stunted beings, have absolutely no empathy for the human condition and fail to see the consequences of their actions. They are a pox on society. Indoctrination at an early age and non-existent family cohesion are a deadly combination that aids in the destruction of a society.

Blogger Jack Amok April 22, 2021 8:44 PM  

It takes a Voxian level of rational clarity to resist the same carrot you’ve been trained on your whole life.

No it doesn't. All it takes is some self respect.

Blogger John Rockwell April 22, 2021 9:00 PM  

@VD

The death of jezebel also goes to show that women are equally responsible when it comes to murder.

Since Jezebel murdered God's prophets. God avenged himself on her for their blood.

How much more should modern women be held accountable for all murders committed by them.

Yet it seems only Iran and Egypt properly holds them accountable:
http://www.capitalpunishmentuk.org/femhanged.html

Meanwhile in America. Not so much.

Blogger Pathfinderlight April 22, 2021 9:06 PM  

The (((tribe))) who instigated all the home sales?

Blogger Balkan Yankee April 22, 2021 9:36 PM  

St. Floyd says woke chicks need to decenter.

Blogger ScottC April 22, 2021 9:40 PM  

To all of the boomers, gen xers and misguided millennial boy scouts who think men have a non negotiable duty to protect women - if women can't protect themselves, then why don't we go back to coverture? Men can't monitor the behavior of women at all times and places. We're just creating more work for ourselves than is necessary. You're essentially saying that women have no agency, but that they should be free to make independent decisions.

Blogger ScottC April 22, 2021 9:51 PM  

They need to be commanded and guided but not held responsible but more importantly, not put in charge of things that life or civilization relies on.

That part is true, but we're not in a position to guide them. The Game/PUA faction of the manosphere is closer to the tradcons insofar as they try to manage the current system. The tradcons want to manage it by shaming men for looking at porn and spinning plates, while game/PUA manages it by giving men quaint advice about manhood. No man in his right mind would become a "high value man" for this system, because it isn't worth the sacrifice and it requires compromise.

MGTOW sees the current system as inherently unstable. They have pulled out of it because it can't be managed and it isn't worth preserving. MGTOW are like Trump supporters under the Biden administration. When the Biden administration takes the few remaining liberties of conservative Americans and gives them nothing in return, but continues to demand their labor and cooperation, they will begin to lose faith in the system and disengage from it. Basically, they'll say "What's in it for me?" That's what MGTOW are asking. We're not interested in managing the dysfunction with PUA techniques and misguided encouragement to "be more masculine" which means make yourself disposable for the current system.

Blogger Colonel Blimp April 22, 2021 10:15 PM  

This country is already hell on Earth and I agree about helping. However, there is a big assumption that she would def be hurt and couldnt wait for security. If she is all about diversity then she should have nothing to fear after all right?

One day there just won't be any real men left to defend anyone in large part because of people like her. It is hard to decide how to correct this without some form of reality check.

Blogger John Williams April 22, 2021 11:42 PM  

They have absolutely nothing invested in them. What else would they do?

Blogger v.soest April 22, 2021 11:59 PM  

A black friend of mine from alcoholics anonymous said the he doesn't "swipe right" on dating apps where white girls write blm on their profile. His reasoning, "those are the same girls that lock their car door when they see me walking on the street"

Blogger MonsoonBear April 23, 2021 12:24 AM  

Always kill a traitor before an enemy, or at least don't save the damn traitor.

Blogger Colonel Blimp April 23, 2021 12:30 AM  

There are plenty of guys that tall on basketball teams. It's possible on campuses.

Blogger Colonel Blimp April 23, 2021 12:41 AM  

If you grew up around them for any period of time you would know you broke the code. Never get between a man and his money....no matter if it is a women and especially no matter if it is illegal. The 2nd lesson of fight club is no matter how nice, cultured , etc. when anythinh hits the fans bkacks will stand with each other and you don't matter. In some cases, especially the educated ones, for fear of being seen as too white overexaggerate these rules and become blm antifa types. All privelege but victims supreme.

You learn a lot growing up in the south and now in cities everywhere. It's tough living near them. A feminine country based on emotion and structured for nothing but the benefit of blacks cannot last long. We will destroy ourselves or be invaded. Soon.

Blogger Valar Addemmis April 23, 2021 12:43 AM  

Newscaper312 wrote:I just checked and 6'10" would put him way over the 99th percentile for height.



Must hurt to midwit so hard.

Vox just posted his traffic numbers a few days ago. And the part of a story from the site that you don't buy is based off of one described characteristic being in the 99th percentile? With those traffic numbers?

Silly. If you want to argue that just-so stories never happen, fine. But that post was sad.

Blogger Akulkis April 23, 2021 2:28 AM  

>> They know that everything they spew is a lie, but they do it in the hope of landing a six figure job where they just have to sit in meetings and not solve any real problems.

...where they just have to sit and in meetings to CREATE problems which they will then pretend to solve by making policies which make things worse by punishing the innocent and good while ignoring the criminals.

Blogger Akulkis April 23, 2021 2:46 AM  

>> This is a fear response. There's something about women that makes them believe they're safer when they're talking.


One more reason why women don't belong in the military, let alone combat arms, especially infantry and cavalry (scouts), where the breaking of absolute silence can mean sudden, violent death, or even worse, capture.

Blogger Akulkis April 23, 2021 3:05 AM  

>> May end up with only black cops only for black neighborhoods. They may end up demanding it and we should let them have it, principled chucks be damned.

Black cops refuse to go along with that policy, because they know it's more dangerous for them than every race participates in policing each of the neighborhoods.

Blogger Linda Fox April 23, 2021 4:15 AM  

Yes, to Avalanche. Women (who have any sense at all), are afraid. I do curtail my movement due to that rather sensible fear.
I'd not thought much about that before, especially in the context of being prey, but that is a good point.
Thank you for the clear explanation.

Blogger WITCHOUND April 23, 2021 5:46 AM  

Yes. I crave justice.

Blogger My Comment April 23, 2021 7:24 AM  

Years back I realized that women, especially blue city ones, despise a man who is nice to them without their having to earn it.

Now I feel that white men need to quit helping anyone besides white men and children unless they have earned it.

Modern white men pride themselves on being colorblind white knights. Consequently no one takes us, as a group, seriously.

White men can be demonized 24 x 7 but the minute there is an emergency white men are the ones who are out there helping everyone. During that period there is a short break in demonizing white men. The minute that the emergency is over the usual suspects go right back to demonizing white. If there is a job opening we will hire the best person. They will only hire and help their tribe.

No matter how much white men are demonized they never let it alter their behavior. That needs to stop.

Unless some group has proven itself an ally, only hire white men who aren't SJW. Only help and rescue those same men and white children.

Of course, there will be 25x7 Oy veying if we do that but we should not care.

Blogger xevious2030 April 23, 2021 7:31 AM  

“A mind might have been opened.”

Ok, in English. One who spouts off vitriol at white men, and then displays overt fear around black men, is a waste of time. This is not their first go-round. Typically. In a world of 7.9 billion, removing the number of whites, leaves around 7.4 billion. And they are increasingly ready to flush whites. They literally don’t care.

There are still plenty of communities besieged. They are the ones that need help. The rest will learn, or they are beyond help, and will rot, whether you reach out to them or not. Unless you are their Alpha.

Blogger RedJack April 23, 2021 8:05 AM  

Protect your family. I can't protect those who choose to be prey

Blogger Zeroh Tollrants April 23, 2021 8:45 AM  

As a woman, I not only would have turned her down, I would have enjoyed her getting her just desserts.
Y'all need to sack it up. These people would gladly see you killed.

Blogger Avalanche April 23, 2021 9:23 AM  

@95 "makes a LOT of womens' actions seem even stupider by male standards."

Thanks; I hope by pointing it out everywhere I can that a least SOME men and women will begin to realize that women really and truly ARE fundamentally different from men.

Alison Armstrong also teaches, 'modern' women have been taught to view men as "large hairy women who misbehave." This was eye-opening for me. Men will do or say something that no woman EVER would do except to a hated enemy, for reasons that entirely make sense to MEN.... and women have been brainwashed to attribute that to men being bad, not to them being MEN!

I used to ruefully say to my husband... 'I do NOT understand how you could POSSIBLY see this-or-whatever that way. I accept and acknowledge that this is how you, and most men see it ... but it baffles me completely.' I also differentiate carefully between MEN and males... But, when a woman re-orders her perception of 'how men are' -- then his actios or words, seen through the MEN-FILTER, usually makes total sense.

'nother example: Alison asked her husband to come out in the back yard, and she descried how she wanted a fence over there, and a pool here, and plantings here-and-there. And he said: "No." and went back indoors. So she was furious because he didn't even LISTEN top her ideas! (She TEACHES this stuff and) a friend asked if she had tried it in this instance. Oh-um, no, she hadn't.

So, she went back to him and said she was hurt and angry that he had just cut her off and shut her down without even listening to her ideas. He said, 'I'm in charge of our retirement. My first duty is to protect you and the kids, now and in the future. A pool, esp. now, will damage our retirement too much and so we will not be doing that.' He DID eventually put in the fence and plantings.

In, general, men's order ranking for family responsibility is "provide, protect, and cherish." If 'cherishing her feelings' interferes with provide or protect, and she or they are unaware of men's rankings, then the woman will see him as mean.

My sharp, brittle, married NYer friend {eye roll}, who was listening to and reading Alison's stuff came to me spitting NAILS. She, her husband of many years, and I were at Costco, and she had shown him a trashcan she wanted. He's not thrifty: he's just often stupidly TIGHT, so, he said no.

She came steaming to me, and I reminded her that -- for MEN -- when they say: "no" like that, they are **ENTERING a negotiation**. Women hear that as a final rejection; men think: "oh, well, she took the no and left, so it's all good. She must not have wanted it that much." Meanwhile, the WOMAN is plotting murder or divorce!!

I reminded her of this, and suggested she go back and say, "I'd like you to reconsider your decision." (She's a kept wife raising their daughter. He has a stranglehold on the purse strings.) So, he went with her to the trashcan; she described how it made her FEEL to have to get her hands icky with a non-auto-lift can, and look, it was on sale too! "Oh, okay, we can get it."

Blogger OneWingedShark April 23, 2021 9:50 AM  

My Comment wrote:Years back I realized that women, especially blue city ones, despise a man who is nice to them without their having to earn it.
Now I feel that white men need to quit helping anyone besides white men and children unless they have earned it.

With one caveat, I agree.
That caveat: if the chance comes to mentor a young man, do it.
(The reason being that society so despises young men that it's absolutely heartbreaking, and they're dying from a lack of being wanted except for insofar as they can be a walking ATM.)

WITCHOUND wrote:Yes. I crave justice.
Amen.

Blogger xevious2030 April 23, 2021 10:00 AM  

@143 Avalanche
Thanks for the share. Interesting.

Blogger Avalanche April 23, 2021 10:29 AM  

@107 "A predator doesn't fear others. Respect, be cautious around, sure, but not existential fear like a prey animal has."

A thousands time this!

It's innate -- we are BUILT to "fit into our milieu"; being and doing what our tribe tells us is how to stay in good standing: safety first above all else! Hence our horrific (((usefulness))) in the destruction of our nation.

It's not our tribe who is setting (((lying about))) the milieu. It's hard for a woman to be 'awake'; to be aware of our prey status and men's innate predator status. It's painful.

When I ran my dating, mating, marrying, advice list, I judiciously salted my lessons with reality. These poor girls had no idea about how relationships worked, except that most were in their 30s; overwhelmingly they wanted to get married and make babies; and they couldn't find real men who would take them on!

The mere idea that they had to provide AS MUCH value to the man in a relationship as they expected to receive from him was totally novel!! And a bit uncomfortable.

Y'all know most women SWOON over Mr. Darcy? Excellent teaching aide, Darcy: "*IF* you young women WANT that level of courtesy and social order and sheer masculinity in the men around you, then you MUST fulfill the other half of that equation: Femininity! And the restrictions and chaperones and gracious acceptance of the limitations on WOMEN, in order to allow and encourage men to accept the limitations on THEM!"

And you must support YOUR MEN driving off or killing the enemies of your people. I couldn't say that outright to the brainwashed little fools, but I was working to herd them in that direction. I DID directly disallow cross-race dating; and taught them how to graciously turn down such requests.

And an easy entre' into that was actual culture: "do not date or marry a man of a different nationality, religion, race." Had to phrase that delicately to avoid the inculcated recoil reflex; often succeeded!
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"Oh, I'm okay with marrying a man of a different religion!"
"Really? How will you handle religious holidays? What if he refuses to allow the kids to celebrate Christmas or go to church? That okay?"
"OH! No, I want my kids to be raised Christian!"
"Then you NEED to marry another Christian! It's way-hard enough dealing with sex differences; do NOT add any other layers of difficulty on top of that!
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'Heck,' I'd say: 'my Southern husband and Northern me had problems crossing the gulf between what was normal to one but foreign or wrong to the other. Do NOT add any complications to making a marriage work by not trying to align every possible similarity with your mate!'

Had one sweet kindergarten teacher in TEARS because she did NOT want to date negros, and every dating app was always swamping her with negros. I told her "absolutely 100% No! You may NOT date negros!" (No one had ever given her "permission" before, which is what brought her to tears.)

Graciously reject them: "I'm sorry, but I do not date outside my race." Then block him! NOT that the negro was owed ANY grace; it was about how she acted in the world! She was a gracious lady -- well, trying to be. When some animal importunes, you don't try to convince him to go away or be better: you withdraw graciously.

No one had ever taught these girls how to GRACEFULLY reject what they *did not want*! Or even that it was acceptable to do so. Any y'all dads of daughters: teach them how to gracefully reject what they do not want. The actual words and actual phrases they should use to ward off the unwanted. Motto: Draw your boundary and then YOU observe it! Girls don't get it anywhere else; all they get is: submit or get bitchy and maybe attacked.

To elicit gentlemanly behavior, you must exhibit lady-like behavior.

Blogger Avalanche April 23, 2021 10:36 AM  

@116 "May end up with only black cops only for black neighborhoods. They may end up demanding it"

Nope, can't do that. Some years back, trying to make the negros happy, some small city 'split' the force and only sent black cops to black neighborhoods, and White cops to White neighborhoods.

Result?

The BLACK COPS SUED!!! Cause of action: they were getting sent to the worst and most-crime-ridden neighborhoods and the White cops 'had it easy.' Of COURSE the blacks won.

Blogger Avalanche April 23, 2021 10:43 AM  

@118 "but whom we could coexist with at work or in the same city, if not necessarily in the same neighborhood."

And if your daughters, growing up with your "enlightened" (traitorous!) views want to MARRY "the good ones" and make babies? Are you okay with that? With ENDING your genetic line forevermore with no hope of recovery? Secula seculorum?

Let me recommend, instead that you protect your PEOPLE like this!

(Note for below: IKAGO = "I know a good one.")

A commenter here
http://stuffblackpeopledontlike.blogspot.com/2015/05/will-last-white-person-to-leave.html wrote:
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[quote:] I pity the law-abiding Black citizens. They'll be catching a lot of the collateral fallout from this mess. [/quote]

I don't mourn the loss of Baltimore. Or Detroit, Chicago, Gary, Atlanta, etc etc etc.

It is ultimately a huge benefit to have Negroes concentrated in these huge teeming Petri dishes.

As always I advocate the complete White withdrawal from these horrible urban shitholes, and as always I advocate that since Negroes do not want to be policed, to immediately stop policing them.

And to anyone who might be naive enough to say "hey, there are good people in those neighborhoods, who try to work and raise their kids, who obey the law and who abhor the lawlessness and rioting as much as anyone".... my response is that these same IKAGO's voted for a Negro president, for Negro mayors, Negro city council members, Negro police chiefs and Negro school superintendents, and now they are getting exactly what they deserve, good and effing hard.

I have ZERO sympathy for blacks.
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Blogger Avalanche April 23, 2021 11:02 AM  

@126 "MGTOW ... have pulled out of it because it can't be managed and it isn't worth preserving. "

So, you're going to END your genetic line forever, because you aren't willing to put in the work to FIND a good woman and work to keep her? Even though you RISK losing access to your kids and half of everything. Nothing ventured, nothing gained?

On the other hand, at the very lowest number: hundreds of thousands of men DO marry and stay married and raise great kids. Instead of looking in that mirror and whining how ill-treated you were, are, or might be; look in that mirror and ask yourself: "what was MY contribution? And how can I do it better? I lost a battle; I need NOT lose the war NOR retire from the field and nurse my emotional and maybe financial wounds."

"WHAT!?" you cry, "I'm GUILT FREE -- that bitch took my kids!"

Hmmm... YOU married her, you even loved her, once upon a time, enough to marry her. Guilt free? You didn't pay attention during the marriage to what things were going wrong and how you were affecting them.

And look, it's not a *flaw in men*, but it's fer shure a difficulty men and women have with the opposite sex! Where women enjoy working on a relationship and paying attention to their mate; most men aren't even conscious of this sex difference. For men, as long as nothing is bleeding or on fire, then all must be well. For women? A change in the room temperature means something needs attending to. Again, NOT conscious, just how men and women are built.

USED TO BE: society was set up to allow for these differences and everyone knew and supported them. Women did not EXPECT their men to also be their best girlfriends! Men expected that as long as the woman was not railing at them about something, then all was 'well-enough' -- and SHE expected the same!

So, without societal boundaries to keep the separate spheres in check; BOTH men and women must self-educate against the (((destruction))) wrought upon us! No help for that. But abandoning the fight? Retiring from the field is what (((they))) WANT! How better to destroy our people than by forcing the cross-sex problems to end the family?


But, my, how your 'line' has bred down!! "I'm takin' mah ball(s) and going home!"

Blogger wgmeisheid April 23, 2021 3:04 PM  

I have written a post about how to reconcile Jesus' statement of love your enemies and the Proverbs depiction of God hiding himself from those seeking rescue. If that would interest you https://beyondtherim.meisheid.com/not-standing-in-the-way-of-reaping-what-you-sow/

Blogger Captain Barnacles April 23, 2021 3:09 PM  

“I just checked and 6'10" would put him way over the 99th percentile for height.”

I wish I had left that part out. Glad I didn’t include my weight. Apparently it is too big a distraction, from Vox’s excellent lesson. It made sense to mention it at the time because my point was that white people are intent on being useful idiots, both myself and that chick. Also, bigger men are encouraged to develop a psychology of a “gentle giant,” that women take advantage of. We stopped being “friends” in 2016, but Dan Richards has some awful stories about standing up to women, and what happens. It turned him into a ridiculous leftist. At least he made money off it.
And if you want another example of how size can turn you into a huge cuck, look no further than Kevin Nash. We were acquaintances and are almost the same exact size, yet he unfriended me out of pure TDS. A celebrity triggered by a washout.
There are 330,000 Americans my height or taller, and most of them are huge cucks. But whatever.

Blogger xevious2030 April 23, 2021 7:58 PM  

“I wish I had left that part out.”

Somebody has to be 6’10”. And people will be distracted at whatever fancies them.

Blogger ScottC April 23, 2021 9:27 PM  

...you aren't willing to put in the work to FIND a good woman...

Women are not looking for providers, they are looking for fun - until they hit the wall. Women who have careers are able to provide for themselves.

The boomers and gen xers who post stuff about "nice girls" waiting in the pews for a responsible man to wife them up don't know what they're talking about. They haven't been in the marriage market for decades.

The average woman in 1970 made 59% of the average man's earnings. Today, they make 83% of the average man's income. That means a greater percentage of women outearn men than in 1970 and thus a greater percentage of women are liable to write off men as marriage material than in 1970. Add to that the amount of attention women receive from men online and decades of fempowerment/grrrl power affirmations in the media and you have the most entitled generation of women in the history of mankind.

Suppose guys "put in the work" (whatever that means) to meet the ridiculous demands of today's young females. What do they get for it? Are young women thinner, more feminine and more chaste than women 40-50yrs ago? No. Just the opposite.

The "cost" of obtaining a women has increased, while the value has diminished.

Blogger Storm Rhode April 23, 2021 11:25 PM  

How many young women do you know worth risking everything on? Mgtow is a dead end, and mgtow have a realistic understanding of the situation they're rejecting. I'm not mgtow, but to them I'm a cautionary tale.

Blogger The Observer April 24, 2021 6:30 AM  

Women who have careers are able to provide for themselves.

The boomers and gen xers who post stuff about "nice girls" waiting in the pews for a responsible man to wife them up don't know what they're talking about. They haven't been in the marriage market for decades.

The average woman in 1970 made 59% of the average man's earnings. Today, they make 83% of the average man's income. That means a greater percentage of women outearn men than in 1970 and thus a greater percentage of women are liable to write off men as marriage material than in 1970


Most don't have anything except an illusion supported by massive transfer payments from productive white and asian men -- the only groups of people to have a net positive tax balance. That HR job, that diversity placement, those massive gibs in various programs, funds, and laws all designed to capture productivity from men they are not family to and have to give nothing up for to be pipelined straight into buying their votes or worse --

-- Suzy's paper-pushing make-work HR job, position in the art harem at a video game company, place as a glorified test tube washer at a drug firm, all these make-work positions that wouldn't exist without the intervention of an evil state religion and its apparatus, take them all away and wonder just how many are able to "provide for themselves". The modern and much more evil version of nunneries where they do useless make-work, produce even less than the nunneries of old used to, and worship evil.

Blogger Jack Amok April 25, 2021 2:31 PM  

Suppose guys "put in the work" (whatever that means) to meet the ridiculous demands of today's young females.

That's going about it wrong. That's failing the shit test. Don't try to "meet her demands." Chuckle bemusedly at them and metaphonically say "that's cute, now lets go get a burger and brew and I'll tell you about my drone racing hobby..."

Because you're right, young women aren't looking for providers these days, but they are looking for men. You can't just show up with a wallet and expect anything, that's the whole point of Game.

Some days I wonder if it was ever really all that good for guys who were just walking paychecks to their wives.

Blogger OneWingedShark April 26, 2021 12:30 PM  

Avalanche wrote:@126 "MGTOW … have pulled out of it because it can't be managed and it isn't worth preserving."
[…]
But, my, how your 'line' has bred down!! "I'm takin' mah ball(s) and going home!"

But Avalanche, you just said that "The mere idea that they [womenfolk] had to provide AS MUCH value to the man in a relationship as they expected to receive from him was totally novel!! And a bit uncomfortable."

So what, exactly, are men offered with today's women?
1) Someone to take care of the home?
—> Nope, Boomers failed to teach practical life-skills to their children.
2) Children?
—> Nope, feminism has demonized housewifing; courts have a well-established reputation for giving the woman custody & denying the father rights.
3) Lifelong commitment?
—> Nope, thanks to "no-fault divorce" she can divorce for no reason at all. + No societal shame if she leaves for a "better" man.
4) School debt.
—> Something that's a 'yes', yay! …waitaminute.
5) Someone to depend on when your down?
—> Oh, right… showing sadness, frustration, any other human emotion to a woman is weakness and 'unmanly'.
—> Well, I suppose 'anger' is an acceptable "male emotion", but that can be used in divorce proceedings.

So what, exactly, is the incentive for men to get married?
Mills saw Gen-X/older-Mills get eviscerated by divorce-court; if they were military, there's a non-trivial chance they saw someone in their unit get screwed over by a cheating wife+the courts. (I know someone who was accused of beating his wife, while on deployment, and got in trouble for missing his court-date [because he was deployed].)
Again, what are women offering?
How, exactly, are men supposed to respond?
And, please keep in mind when answering, that until there's a ring and an 'I do' the man has jack-shit responsibility for her.

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